Good God... I don't think this could have possibly been more frustrating...
I finally figured out the method behind setting up the CF-Flex Connectivity this afternoon. I'd setup the default "ColdFusion" destination out of the box, with a minor adjustment to the channel uri setting a few weeks ago. However, I decided this afternoon that I would get it setup so that I could easily copy from my development environment over to production (both have CF and the CF Connectivity installed). So I wanted to setup two different destinations, one for my local instance, and one for the production instance.... that way when I was ready to deploy to production just test locally, and move it over if all was good.
The solution ended up involving the same version of the flex-gateway-config.xml file to be placed in each location, which had destinations for both the local development box as well as production box. Before moving over to production, change the destination to the production box, test locally, and if al